Love

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Love
There are many people that have trouble defining love or being able to understand what exactly it is. For years love has remained a difficult subject for human beings to understand. One thing is clear though, that without love humans would not exist and that it is a basic drive in all human beings.
Love may be defined in many different ways but the psychologist Eric Fromm defined love as “Always the act of giving”. Eric Fromm had many findings about love, aside from his definition he also found that love was the 4th basic drive in all humans, love is a major motivator, he also concluded that men fall in love an average of 9 times in during their lifetime and that women fall in love an average of 6 times and he found that love is the base of all human emotions.
This definition of love has been exemplified in my life by seeing people who truly love each other and care for each other deeply. Love is a hard thing to find but it is not impossible to find or attain. When I see a person who makes sacrifices for people and who gives constantly to the people whom they care for is what I call love and how I hold up my standard to love.
When love is absent from our lives humans cease to function correctly. It is one of our basic drives and humans need love in order to survive as much as they need food or water. Love is one of the things that seperates us from animals and allows us to make bonds and relationsihps with people whom we care for deeply....