Personal Life

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As a young adolescent my dad always preached at me about leaving cloths and my personal items around the house. At the time I did not agree with my dad because I thought that I could always just pick up my things later. So when I did not clean up after myself the articles would just pile up. If it sat there long enough I would be punished. After I was punished I would get angry because I didn’t think it was a big deal.
As a young child I did not understand that it was wrong not to clean up after myself. I always thought that someone else would get it for me. But then I came to the realization that no one wants to pick up after someone else. So, after a while, my dad thought it was time for me to learn the lesson of picking up after myself. He told me for every item that was mine that was not where it should be, I would be grounded for a day. To teach me this lesson, he also would hide my things. He said they were not in their right place. I finally realized that he was serious, and that I needed to change my behavior.
I began picking up after myself, which made life easier for me because now I can find all my belongings. It took less time to find my stuff because I always knew where everything was. I also felt a sense of responsibility. An added benefit of my new found behavior was that life was also easier for my family because my stuff was not always in their way. My dad and I got along much better after I started taking responsibility for myself.

Now, as a young adult I am happy that my dad made me pick up after myself. His insistence on teaching me this lesson has also taught me self discipline. I use what I learn from this lesson in my life today.
One of the ways this lesson has shaped my life is that I now have my own apartment and I often have friends over. A cleaner and less cluttered apartment has increased my friends opinion of me and the one I care the most about, my girlfriend Eylse, has also been...