A Successful Relationship

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There are three main stages in a relationship. The first key element in a relationship is to

begin by dating the person you feel the most attraction for; this is the easy part. After this,

the next fork in the road entails taking the relationship to the next level, and marrying your

soul mate. Finally, your hardest challenge arrives. This challenge, of course, includes the

biggest day in your life: the birth of your children. In a nutshell, this is how a relationship

evolves and remains successful and alive.

Dating a person is the most important part of a relationship. This is how you know if you

are compatible and if the relationship will last. There must first be sparks between the two of

you. Whether you meet in school, work, or between mutual friends, you must be somewhat

attracted to this person. It does not necessarily have to be a physical attraction, but it can also be

a mental fixation. Now that you have the attraction, you must now get up the courage to ask this

person out on a first date, also known as “Gettin’ up the gusto.” You have gotten over the hard

part, asked the girl out, and she has said yes. Now comes preparation for the first date. You

want it to be amazingly perfect, and a night that she will never forget. Now you must do a little

bit of research to find out more about her and what she likes. You may just come out and ask her

to get to know her better, or ask her friends what she is interested in. This includes anything

from what sports, if any, she is into, her favorite color, flower, or food; what kind of movies she

likes, and what she does to have fun. For instance, if her favorite flower was daisies, and her

favorite food was Italian food the perfect date would be to go and hand pick a bunch of daisies

for her, and then proceed to the best Italian restaurant in the city. It would be the most

thoughtful and ...