Comparison

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Living with my fiancé for the last three years has been quite an adventure. I have always been the type of person who likes things done a certain way. I have my routine and I like to stick to it. Anal, as he would put it. He is more of a go-with-the-flow kind of person that doesn’t mind when things get a little out of order. A slob, as I would say. However, even with some of our obvious differences, we manage to keep it together and primarily try to focus on what makes us compatible.

For me, living with someone was a big adjustment. I wasn’t used to sharing closet space, my bed, and especially not my bathroom. I liked things the way I liked things and I was used to not having to worry about someone else being around and messing up my space. I now find myself picking up socks and underwear on a daily basis. The countless times I yell about this doesn’t seem to sink in. Making the bed first thing in the morning was a normal ritual for me but how can you make your bed on a Saturday morning when your significant other decides that he wants to sleep in? You yell at the top of your lungs about how lazy is he and that he needs to get out of bed or you just don’t make it at all. Straightening up the house is another thing that I feel the need to do in order to be able to fully relax. No matter how long of a day I’ve had, when I come home, if my place seems a little disorganized, I feel the need to take the time and straighten it up. He, on the other hand doesn’t seem notice and thinks that I’m strange and some sort of a “clean freak”. Paying the bills and handling the money in my house is definitely a task that I have taken on. I am one of those people that call the bank and check my balances on a daily basis. Spending large amounts of money is not something I enjoy doing. I am a very frugal person, very tight with my money. My fiancé on the other hand doesn’t like to let money factor into things as much as I do. He�...